one of those things........

Why is this special?
It is not. Just another betrayal!! And that does not mean much, really.

We sing glorifying stuff about Vibhishan. But his brother could not have felt great when that one hit him.
Nor could Judas have been easy on poor Jesus.

But the chameleon was easy to forgive and forget- he could not control something that was so intrinsic to him- his very nature.
And so I must accept that some people I trust are not naturally trustworthy. They will do stuff which could be potentially harmful to me.

Mutuality of agreements be damned. And after all at some time I must have done something that made someone feel betrayed. I could not have lived half a century, without that under my belt.

S/He survives who can take care of her/himself. It really does not matter whether I do or not- survive I mean.
What matters is to accept and live in reality. When that gets too ugly to deal with, move on to philosophy- asha dukh ka mool hai kind of stuff that carries you through the real deep shit.

And after, you shall get back to feeling - great.